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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 153147" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I feel for you, I really do.</p><p></p><p>As far as the hospital thing goes, I dont understand why being admitted to the state hospital has a thing to do with having him put in the custody of the state. My son was in the state hospital down here for 3 weeks or so, and then transferred to a state run residential placement and custody was never an issue. Mine was also involved with the legal end back then too. Custody of my son was never, ever an issue. (Maybe no one wanted him...lol)</p><p></p><p>Now I may sound here like I am going against what everyone else has said about this PO and all that but....it just could be that having a really tough, mean PO saves your son in the long run. I wish my sons PO had been so tough on him that he learned that rules have consequences and that when the LAW tells you something, you best darn well listen. Instead we got this wishy washy PO who was just there for the paycheck and this guy never did a thing he said he was going to do. Supposedly Cory was to attend school daily, follow rules, blah blah blah. Cory skipped 88 days that year and I started reporting him the very first day he skipped. I wanted him to learn to not mess with the law. Instead the PO took him to parties and activities. And one wonders why Cory thinks the legal system is no problem to get over on! DUH!!!</p><p></p><p>I hope you dont end up down the same path mine took but maybe, just maybe, this tough old PO may scare him into NOT ending up in jail.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 153147, member: 1514"] I feel for you, I really do. As far as the hospital thing goes, I dont understand why being admitted to the state hospital has a thing to do with having him put in the custody of the state. My son was in the state hospital down here for 3 weeks or so, and then transferred to a state run residential placement and custody was never an issue. Mine was also involved with the legal end back then too. Custody of my son was never, ever an issue. (Maybe no one wanted him...lol) Now I may sound here like I am going against what everyone else has said about this PO and all that but....it just could be that having a really tough, mean PO saves your son in the long run. I wish my sons PO had been so tough on him that he learned that rules have consequences and that when the LAW tells you something, you best darn well listen. Instead we got this wishy washy PO who was just there for the paycheck and this guy never did a thing he said he was going to do. Supposedly Cory was to attend school daily, follow rules, blah blah blah. Cory skipped 88 days that year and I started reporting him the very first day he skipped. I wanted him to learn to not mess with the law. Instead the PO took him to parties and activities. And one wonders why Cory thinks the legal system is no problem to get over on! DUH!!! I hope you dont end up down the same path mine took but maybe, just maybe, this tough old PO may scare him into NOT ending up in jail. [/QUOTE]
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