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CRAFT Another response to children's addiction
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 696188" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Curious.</p><p></p><p>I Think the message is confusing What is the gain for the addict to be forced to leave and maybe be homeless and then be pulled back. You lost me.</p><p></p><p>Few to none of us have no contact at all, but isn't it confusing and ambiguous to say "go" and "come back?" How can you set boundaries that way.</p><p></p><p>Is this for the good of the addict or us?</p><p></p><p>Sounds wishy washy. Can you explain better?</p><p></p><p>Maybe I do this iny conversations with my son</p><p></p><p>If I do, and I do often feel wishy washy, it doesn't work. When I put the lead foot to the brakes, that is when he treats me well...but I don't always follow thrpugh. I understand this is a different situation.. phone talk only.</p><p></p><p>I would like a better grasp. The truth is, even though Son can get abusive without warning, I still talk to him because I love him, see the good in him, and like having him in my life. But I shudder to think of LIVING with him...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 696188, member: 1550"] Curious. I Think the message is confusing What is the gain for the addict to be forced to leave and maybe be homeless and then be pulled back. You lost me. Few to none of us have no contact at all, but isn't it confusing and ambiguous to say "go" and "come back?" How can you set boundaries that way. Is this for the good of the addict or us? Sounds wishy washy. Can you explain better? Maybe I do this iny conversations with my son If I do, and I do often feel wishy washy, it doesn't work. When I put the lead foot to the brakes, that is when he treats me well...but I don't always follow thrpugh. I understand this is a different situation.. phone talk only. I would like a better grasp. The truth is, even though Son can get abusive without warning, I still talk to him because I love him, see the good in him, and like having him in my life. But I shudder to think of LIVING with him... [/QUOTE]
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