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Crazy Eyes during Tantrum - like she wasn't there
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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 251283" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Hi,</p><p>I have seen that look in my difficult child's eyes, too.</p><p> </p><p>I like Marg's explanation. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>Just for future reference, since I have been there done that, Sandy, I would suggest not chasing your daughter down or putting her in her room; it provokes more of a response. I would come up with-another plan ... not sure what, <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" /> but it seems like once she's in that stage, she has to work her own way out of it, and getting in her way just makes it worse.</p><p>Taking something out of our kids' hands is sure to provoke a rage. Like I said, I have done it too many times. Most of us, when something is yanked away, will just yell, "Hey, what do you think you're doing?!" but these kids are always over the top.</p><p> </p><p>by the way, she may not have been lying about being ugly, kids teasing, etc.; my difficult child often has crummy days and refuses to talk about them, and then I do one, itty, bitty thing that sets him off, and it all comes crashing down. And it's all MY fault. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p><p> </p><p>I hope the responses here have helped.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 251283, member: 3419"] Hi, I have seen that look in my difficult child's eyes, too. I like Marg's explanation. :) Just for future reference, since I have been there done that, Sandy, I would suggest not chasing your daughter down or putting her in her room; it provokes more of a response. I would come up with-another plan ... not sure what, :sick: but it seems like once she's in that stage, she has to work her own way out of it, and getting in her way just makes it worse. Taking something out of our kids' hands is sure to provoke a rage. Like I said, I have done it too many times. Most of us, when something is yanked away, will just yell, "Hey, what do you think you're doing?!" but these kids are always over the top. by the way, she may not have been lying about being ugly, kids teasing, etc.; my difficult child often has crummy days and refuses to talk about them, and then I do one, itty, bitty thing that sets him off, and it all comes crashing down. And it's all MY fault. :knockedout: I hope the responses here have helped. [/QUOTE]
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