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I am so sorry to hear that your life is so stressful right now. I am sure that is an understatement. Someone once said to me that the social workers and others in the system do what is to their advantage. What gets things resolved and out of their hands. They don't consider the effects on anyone except your daughter. I don't know if that is true but kind of suspect it is at least partially true. Therefore i am glad you are looking for advice from professionals who are not in the system. I wonder too if your daughter is showing what she thinks will work to get her out. My son says and does the right things until he gets what he wants. I sincerely hope this is not the case and she is ready to straighten up her life. It should not be at her childrens cost or your cost. If she is truly sincere she can straighten her life and then try to rebuild relationships when she is stable. I don't mean to sound harsh but I think i did. Prayers that all this is a positive change.

<blockquote data-quote="Triedntrue" data-source="post: 754920" data-attributes="member: 21499"><p>I am so sorry to hear that your life is so stressful right now. I am sure that is an understatement. Someone once said to me that the social workers and others in the system do what is to their advantage. What gets things resolved and out of their hands. They don't consider the effects on anyone except your daughter.&nbsp; I don't know if that is true but kind of suspect it is at least partially true. Therefore i am glad you are looking for advice from professionals who are not in the system.&nbsp; I wonder too if your daughter is showing what she thinks will work to get her out. My son says and does the right things until he gets what he wants.&nbsp; I sincerely hope this is not the case and she is ready to straighten up her life. It should not be at her childrens cost or your cost. If she is truly sincere she can straighten her life and then try to rebuild relationships when she is stable. I don't mean to sound harsh but I think i did. Prayers that all this is a positive change.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Triedntrue, post: 754920, member: 21499"] I am so sorry to hear that your life is so stressful right now. I am sure that is an understatement. Someone once said to me that the social workers and others in the system do what is to their advantage. What gets things resolved and out of their hands. They don't consider the effects on anyone except your daughter. I don't know if that is true but kind of suspect it is at least partially true. Therefore i am glad you are looking for advice from professionals who are not in the system. I wonder too if your daughter is showing what she thinks will work to get her out. My son says and does the right things until he gets what he wants. I sincerely hope this is not the case and she is ready to straighten up her life. It should not be at her childrens cost or your cost. If she is truly sincere she can straighten her life and then try to rebuild relationships when she is stable. I don't mean to sound harsh but I think i did. Prayers that all this is a positive change. [/QUOTE]

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