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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 754937" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>OH, Leafy... It's heart breaking to read this, the pain you and the children bear, while bio mom doesn't have a clue how her actions affects everyone.</p><p></p><p>Can you ask the social worker to set in on the first few mandated phone calls and help prepare the children before the call and process it after the call? Can the children just tell their mom "I'm not ready to talk right now." </p><p></p><p>I know how the mom will try to manipulate the children over the phone, how she will make all sorts of promises, how she will use the child's vulnerabilities to draw them in to her empty promises. I know, because I've lived it for 16 years. And my grands bio mom is still doing it, and we adopted 15 years ago. But now my grands are adults (kind of) and they still don't have the emotional maturity to handle it.</p><p></p><p>And neither does their mom. Luckily she is 1500 miles away.</p><p></p><p>Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 754937, member: 12511"] OH, Leafy... It's heart breaking to read this, the pain you and the children bear, while bio mom doesn't have a clue how her actions affects everyone. Can you ask the social worker to set in on the first few mandated phone calls and help prepare the children before the call and process it after the call? Can the children just tell their mom "I'm not ready to talk right now." I know how the mom will try to manipulate the children over the phone, how she will make all sorts of promises, how she will use the child's vulnerabilities to draw them in to her empty promises. I know, because I've lived it for 16 years. And my grands bio mom is still doing it, and we adopted 15 years ago. But now my grands are adults (kind of) and they still don't have the emotional maturity to handle it. And neither does their mom. Luckily she is 1500 miles away. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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