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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 749208" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>New Leaf,</p><p></p><p>This is such an eye opening statement. Worry and anxiety starts to feel like love...For me it became my full time job and I felt that I needed to be thinking and worrying about them 24/7 or else I wasn't caring enough, or I wasn't fulfilling my job as their mother. Truth be told, they for certain didn't "think" I was/am caring about them never mind 24/7. It has taken me time (and I'm not fixed yet) to realize I don't have to obsess about them all the time to convince/prove to myself I do care about and love them. I know I love them but they may never "feel" it because their reality of love is possibly only at the moment I hand over money and I'm not really sure about that either.</p><p></p><p>So, I continue to work on untangling from that web and grieve the loss of which I had hoped I'd always have. I have good days and bad days.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 749208, member: 23405"] New Leaf, This is such an eye opening statement. Worry and anxiety starts to feel like love...For me it became my full time job and I felt that I needed to be thinking and worrying about them 24/7 or else I wasn't caring enough, or I wasn't fulfilling my job as their mother. Truth be told, they for certain didn't "think" I was/am caring about them never mind 24/7. It has taken me time (and I'm not fixed yet) to realize I don't have to obsess about them all the time to convince/prove to myself I do care about and love them. I know I love them but they may never "feel" it because their reality of love is possibly only at the moment I hand over money and I'm not really sure about that either. So, I continue to work on untangling from that web and grieve the loss of which I had hoped I'd always have. I have good days and bad days. [/QUOTE]
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