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<blockquote data-quote="Mamacat" data-source="post: 701835" data-attributes="member: 20962"><p>I'm feeling very sad tonight. I really miss my daughter and granddaughters. I just don't understand. So confusing. Sweet and caring. Then angry and hateful when she doesn't get what she wants. When I said no to a car last year about this time, she called me malicious and that I enjoyed seeing her suffer. What the heck? I've done everything I could do to help her. I don't even know who she is anymore. Then I did an amends letter (I think it's 4th step of CODA). She accepted my amends and all was well again. Then I gave (sold) her my car. Then everything was really great. She's quit so many jobs in the last 8 years, went through over $100.000 from the sale of a house. Ran up credit cards and threw them in the garbage when bills came. My blinders were on and I just made excuses for all this because shecould talk a good talk. So much psychobabble. It was amazing. Not to mention the church-going. All of these gave me hope, but now I feel so hopeless, confused, sad, angry. Don't know what to think. I hope my grand babies are okay. I hope they remember how much their grandma loves them and I would see them if I could. I hope my granddaughter has a birthday party. I hope my daughter gives her the gifts I sent. Thank y'all for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mamacat, post: 701835, member: 20962"] I'm feeling very sad tonight. I really miss my daughter and granddaughters. I just don't understand. So confusing. Sweet and caring. Then angry and hateful when she doesn't get what she wants. When I said no to a car last year about this time, she called me malicious and that I enjoyed seeing her suffer. What the heck? I've done everything I could do to help her. I don't even know who she is anymore. Then I did an amends letter (I think it's 4th step of CODA). She accepted my amends and all was well again. Then I gave (sold) her my car. Then everything was really great. She's quit so many jobs in the last 8 years, went through over $100.000 from the sale of a house. Ran up credit cards and threw them in the garbage when bills came. My blinders were on and I just made excuses for all this because shecould talk a good talk. So much psychobabble. It was amazing. Not to mention the church-going. All of these gave me hope, but now I feel so hopeless, confused, sad, angry. Don't know what to think. I hope my grand babies are okay. I hope they remember how much their grandma loves them and I would see them if I could. I hope my granddaughter has a birthday party. I hope my daughter gives her the gifts I sent. Thank y'all for listening. [/QUOTE]
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