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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyC1234" data-source="post: 754703" data-attributes="member: 24338"><p>Thank you JMom, Busynmember, ChickPea and Applecori.</p><p></p><p>As for the new baby.... that's whole other mess. The dad admitted that when my daughter first got pregnant he asked her if there was a chance that the baby was not his and she said yes, so not sure what to do about this situation....and I'm not even sure she's done all the paper work to get the baby's SS# or birth certificate. I know when she had left the hospital she still hadn't named the baby. She has a name now just not sure she's done the paper work to go with it.</p><p></p><p>I hope I'm doing the right thing for my Mar, the other grand. Her dad has not seen her in about a month or so and not sure what to make of that and how he will react to me having temporary guardianship. Maybe if I explain why, like the driving drunk, being high and soon no place to live, and that he can still see her as he wants but he'll need to go through me now.</p><p></p><p>I don't think he or her ever pursued the child custody thing because here do they all of it at once, custody, child support and visitation, you can't pick and choose what you want to do. The child support part makes him angry, so this is a win for him, because his daughter is safe and he doesn't have to pay child support and he can still see her. From what I hear he's got a bad temper and my daughter is afraid of that, so I believe that's why she never pursued it.</p><p></p><p>My daughter text me last night asking if her and the baby could stay, I said no. Which was right about my bed time, then I couldn't sleep at all after that. I felt guilty, but I can't keep letting this cycle go round and round. I know she's not going to make rent this month, which was due yesterday, so soon they will have no place to live. I honestly don't want her at my house. Things go missing and I just don't want her there. She acts like everything is normal when it's not. </p><p></p><p>She told my dad she went to the hospital to get her blood drawn to check her thyroid, because she's pretty sure it's causing all these problems, which it very well, might, but she could have done this like 2 years ago. I don't think she got blood drawn at all. I have access to her email and all I saw was an appointment she make at the OB/GYN office. She needs to see and endocrinologist. I asked my dad what about her drinking/smoking and he said one step at a time. This problem, if feel, is much bigger that a thyroid problem.</p><p></p><p>I am just scared and I hope I am doing the right thing by pursuing guardianship.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyC1234, post: 754703, member: 24338"] Thank you JMom, Busynmember, ChickPea and Applecori. As for the new baby.... that's whole other mess. The dad admitted that when my daughter first got pregnant he asked her if there was a chance that the baby was not his and she said yes, so not sure what to do about this situation....and I'm not even sure she's done all the paper work to get the baby's SS# or birth certificate. I know when she had left the hospital she still hadn't named the baby. She has a name now just not sure she's done the paper work to go with it. I hope I'm doing the right thing for my Mar, the other grand. Her dad has not seen her in about a month or so and not sure what to make of that and how he will react to me having temporary guardianship. Maybe if I explain why, like the driving drunk, being high and soon no place to live, and that he can still see her as he wants but he'll need to go through me now. I don't think he or her ever pursued the child custody thing because here do they all of it at once, custody, child support and visitation, you can't pick and choose what you want to do. The child support part makes him angry, so this is a win for him, because his daughter is safe and he doesn't have to pay child support and he can still see her. From what I hear he's got a bad temper and my daughter is afraid of that, so I believe that's why she never pursued it. My daughter text me last night asking if her and the baby could stay, I said no. Which was right about my bed time, then I couldn't sleep at all after that. I felt guilty, but I can't keep letting this cycle go round and round. I know she's not going to make rent this month, which was due yesterday, so soon they will have no place to live. I honestly don't want her at my house. Things go missing and I just don't want her there. She acts like everything is normal when it's not. She told my dad she went to the hospital to get her blood drawn to check her thyroid, because she's pretty sure it's causing all these problems, which it very well, might, but she could have done this like 2 years ago. I don't think she got blood drawn at all. I have access to her email and all I saw was an appointment she make at the OB/GYN office. She needs to see and endocrinologist. I asked my dad what about her drinking/smoking and he said one step at a time. This problem, if feel, is much bigger that a thyroid problem. I am just scared and I hope I am doing the right thing by pursuing guardianship. [/QUOTE]
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