Susie thank you for the link. We currently do not have one. I need to put it together. I will start working on one tomorrow. Right now I am taking in some peace and quiet before the chaos of difficult child coming home begins. I was trying to nap, but I have been too amped up all day. I am finding it hard to get most people to listen. They automatically balk at the fact that she has been on medications since she was 7. I am going to have to ask around if there is a place for easy child to stay. All of my family lives 2.5 hours away, and most of her friends do not have the room. Not to mention, her instrument is huge. She plays the bass. So it alone takes up alot of space. But I have been thinking about this alot. I may ask one of my friends whose daughter is at college, or my mother in law but I know my daughter wouldn't want to stay with her. I know easy child's boyfriends mom would take her but they do not have the space in their home. She may have a teacher that she can ask. I will bring it up to her. I just hate that we would be running her out of her own home. I hate these **** tears. I am so sick of crying. And, the ativan makes them more common. I may ask if there is somwthing that works as well that won't cause all the emotions. I just don't want difficult child to see what she does to me, and give her the satifaction.