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<blockquote data-quote="pasajes4" data-source="post: 699523" data-attributes="member: 12856"><p>KSM, I do understand about not wanti g her to feel unloved or abandoned. There comes a point where handing them money and loaning them cars needs to stop. She has shown you what she thinks of your love by not being truthful to you time after time. Doing things out of fear, guilt, and worry teaches them to gaslight to keep what they want coming. </p><p></p><p>You matter. You deserve to be able to spend or save your money for what you need and want. Decide what your limit on helping will be and then have that conversation with kiddo. You don't deserve to have your kindness taken for granted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pasajes4, post: 699523, member: 12856"] KSM, I do understand about not wanti g her to feel unloved or abandoned. There comes a point where handing them money and loaning them cars needs to stop. She has shown you what she thinks of your love by not being truthful to you time after time. Doing things out of fear, guilt, and worry teaches them to gaslight to keep what they want coming. You matter. You deserve to be able to spend or save your money for what you need and want. Decide what your limit on helping will be and then have that conversation with kiddo. You don't deserve to have your kindness taken for granted. [/QUOTE]
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