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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 466327" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 12px">My feeling, and this has been a topic with our personal therapist, is that if he is interested in maintaining the integrity of your marriage then he would respect your wishes and remove all X's from his facebook, etc.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 12px">I believe an exh/exw is a different situation if children are involved. My ex and I are friends on facebook, but we live 150 miles apart and rarely, if ever, comment on one another's walls. My H doesn't have a problem with this at all. If my exh were a lover or person I had an emotional affair with AFTER we were married, I would respect his wishes if he asked me to remove him from my friend's list. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 12px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 12px">For me, it's about respect and consideration of your spouse's/partner's feelings. If his removing those people from his friends list helps you to feel more comfortable and trusting, then he should do it without any argument. That would show dedication to his working to keep your marriage intact and working through any issues of trust between you that may have been breached in the past. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 466327, member: 2211"] [COLOR=#008080][SIZE=3]My feeling, and this has been a topic with our personal therapist, is that if he is interested in maintaining the integrity of your marriage then he would respect your wishes and remove all X's from his facebook, etc. I believe an exh/exw is a different situation if children are involved. My ex and I are friends on facebook, but we live 150 miles apart and rarely, if ever, comment on one another's walls. My H doesn't have a problem with this at all. If my exh were a lover or person I had an emotional affair with AFTER we were married, I would respect his wishes if he asked me to remove him from my friend's list. For me, it's about respect and consideration of your spouse's/partner's feelings. If his removing those people from his friends list helps you to feel more comfortable and trusting, then he should do it without any argument. That would show dedication to his working to keep your marriage intact and working through any issues of trust between you that may have been breached in the past. [/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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