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Death in my family + a vent
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 458541" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>There is such a disconnect I've noticed as I get older, from outsiders in circumstances like this. It seems courtesy and common respect for another persons loss no longer factors on peoples radars. We noticed the same things when we had to settle personal affairs when my aunt passed and it was hard to accept and deal with. </p><p></p><p>I too am very sorry for your loss. I can see the double loss, first the actual loss of your father, second the loss of the chance to continue to hope for something to change/improve with him and you. I'm very glad his g/f realized that she was told untruths and that you didn't choose this lack of relationship etc. Even though he wasn't the kindest to you, I hope those visits helped you in some fashion. (((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 458541, member: 4264"] There is such a disconnect I've noticed as I get older, from outsiders in circumstances like this. It seems courtesy and common respect for another persons loss no longer factors on peoples radars. We noticed the same things when we had to settle personal affairs when my aunt passed and it was hard to accept and deal with. I too am very sorry for your loss. I can see the double loss, first the actual loss of your father, second the loss of the chance to continue to hope for something to change/improve with him and you. I'm very glad his g/f realized that she was told untruths and that you didn't choose this lack of relationship etc. Even though he wasn't the kindest to you, I hope those visits helped you in some fashion. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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