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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 539721"><p>wOw</p><p></p><p>That's actually the one thing I didn't do...</p><p></p><p>we severed most ties and all financial obligations...</p><p></p><p>but should we drop dead tomorrow; difficult child will be treated the same as his brothers...</p><p></p><p>Caveat being that it will be held in a testamentary trust and nothing will be distributed until youngest easy child is 25. I should add that when difficult child was still a easy child and age 18, we made him the guardian of the pcs. At that moment, I was 100 % confident in our choice. How the mighty have fallen! We ended up revising our 1-year old will in March of this year, and I felt a great deal of relief afterwards.</p><p></p><p>At this point, difficult child is treated like his brothers. I did not want my very last communication to him (which would be probate, long after death) to be anything less than unconditional love. I don't know if we did the right thing...but I figure we will be dead so it won't matter. LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 539721"] wOw That's actually the one thing I didn't do... we severed most ties and all financial obligations... but should we drop dead tomorrow; difficult child will be treated the same as his brothers... Caveat being that it will be held in a testamentary trust and nothing will be distributed until youngest easy child is 25. I should add that when difficult child was still a easy child and age 18, we made him the guardian of the pcs. At that moment, I was 100 % confident in our choice. How the mighty have fallen! We ended up revising our 1-year old will in March of this year, and I felt a great deal of relief afterwards. At this point, difficult child is treated like his brothers. I did not want my very last communication to him (which would be probate, long after death) to be anything less than unconditional love. I don't know if we did the right thing...but I figure we will be dead so it won't matter. LOL [/QUOTE]
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