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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 540006" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>We adopted a child at age six whom hasn't wanted to see us for six years. He is out of our will. I don't even think he'll know or care when we pass on and we are not in contact with him at all per his choice. I don't feel like giving him anything. It is like we don't even have him as a son anymore. I doubt he'll know or care, but he is already written out of our will. We don't even acknowledge him as our child since he has told us several times that we are not his parents (and not in anger...he means it). I tell people i have four children, not five. </p><p></p><p>He has already told us he wants nothing to do with any legalities in the family nor helping Sonic, our disabled son. He wants no responsibility at all. So he also won't get any money and hub and I are very sure of our decision. But, in this case, it is likely we will never see him again. So I'm not sure this is the same as your situation...</p><p>jj</p><p></p><p>Hugs and you have my support, whatever you do. I would be leaning in your direction.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 540006, member: 1550"] We adopted a child at age six whom hasn't wanted to see us for six years. He is out of our will. I don't even think he'll know or care when we pass on and we are not in contact with him at all per his choice. I don't feel like giving him anything. It is like we don't even have him as a son anymore. I doubt he'll know or care, but he is already written out of our will. We don't even acknowledge him as our child since he has told us several times that we are not his parents (and not in anger...he means it). I tell people i have four children, not five. He has already told us he wants nothing to do with any legalities in the family nor helping Sonic, our disabled son. He wants no responsibility at all. So he also won't get any money and hub and I are very sure of our decision. But, in this case, it is likely we will never see him again. So I'm not sure this is the same as your situation... jj Hugs and you have my support, whatever you do. I would be leaning in your direction. [/QUOTE]
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