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Denial.......? Fear?
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<blockquote data-quote="'Chelle" data-source="post: 125663" data-attributes="member: 1161"><p>Sorry for all you're going through, you and your husband. I think as others have said, that he is tired, stressed and afraid. You used to handle much more, and now it's on him and he's probably feeling overwhelmed. And guys need to fix things, and he can't fix this for you. Maybe he feels if he sees you as better, insists you're getting better, then you will be better and he's fixed the situation. He's also probably afraid you WON'T get better, and then where will he be having lost his wife and having to always handle everything alone? He doesn't want to have to face that vision. Your husband has to come to realize that getting well will take time. Maybe not on his schedule, but you're doing what you can to get well and no one wants that more than you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="'Chelle, post: 125663, member: 1161"] Sorry for all you're going through, you and your husband. I think as others have said, that he is tired, stressed and afraid. You used to handle much more, and now it's on him and he's probably feeling overwhelmed. And guys need to fix things, and he can't fix this for you. Maybe he feels if he sees you as better, insists you're getting better, then you will be better and he's fixed the situation. He's also probably afraid you WON'T get better, and then where will he be having lost his wife and having to always handle everything alone? He doesn't want to have to face that vision. Your husband has to come to realize that getting well will take time. Maybe not on his schedule, but you're doing what you can to get well and no one wants that more than you. [/QUOTE]
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