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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 126075" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><strong>One of my biggest fears has been falling into the "sick role". Marg, you make very valid points. It's been a balancing act here since last July - too many changes to quickly; then no changes at all. A waiting game - tension over who is to do what & why. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>husband & I had a long conversation tonight & I expect as long as we continue to communicate life will be at the very least tolerable. I don't want resentment on the part of either of us. I don't want comparisons. I don't care how the dishes get put away - if I can't do it today & husband does I appreciate it.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>And husband is frightened. Frustrated. We're to be celebrating our 20th this coming September & he'd been looking forward to some kind of getaway. The 2 of us alone. It's a ways off - we still have the Mayo appointment. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>dreamer, valid points in the art of flexibility. I know that I've had to really learn that with the tweedles; now more so in the running of my household & especially when asking for help in running the household. A dish out of place will not make or break us. A pizza ordered in versus a home cooked meal - again the same.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>'To all the prayers & hugs thank you. I expect a bumpy ride for the next couple of months, at the very least. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 126075, member: 393"] [B]One of my biggest fears has been falling into the "sick role". Marg, you make very valid points. It's been a balancing act here since last July - too many changes to quickly; then no changes at all. A waiting game - tension over who is to do what & why. husband & I had a long conversation tonight & I expect as long as we continue to communicate life will be at the very least tolerable. I don't want resentment on the part of either of us. I don't want comparisons. I don't care how the dishes get put away - if I can't do it today & husband does I appreciate it. And husband is frightened. Frustrated. We're to be celebrating our 20th this coming September & he'd been looking forward to some kind of getaway. The 2 of us alone. It's a ways off - we still have the Mayo appointment. dreamer, valid points in the art of flexibility. I know that I've had to really learn that with the tweedles; now more so in the running of my household & especially when asking for help in running the household. A dish out of place will not make or break us. A pizza ordered in versus a home cooked meal - again the same. 'To all the prayers & hugs thank you. I expect a bumpy ride for the next couple of months, at the very least. [/B] [/QUOTE]
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