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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 533701" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Sorry you are passing through these doldrums. Cliches are ten a penny, aren't they - you did the best you could at the time, you couldn't know how things would turn out, you can't control others... blah, blah. But really, here is all this painful and not ideal reality with these children you generously adopted (and for yourself too) and with your own biological son. And now the worry and uncertainty about Sonic. It is all very human and natural that you should feel as you do! I for one am not going to say "Don't be silly, don't feel like that!" All I know is... that the beginning and ending of everything - and so very hard to do sometimes - is the peace that we come to with ourselves, and the loving kindness that we generate towards our own hearts and minds, and then by extension outwards to others. So I don't know what else to tell you other than that you seem like a kind lady, you have acted with kindness in your life, and now maybe you can turn that kindness very purposefully onto yourself <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 533701, member: 11227"] Sorry you are passing through these doldrums. Cliches are ten a penny, aren't they - you did the best you could at the time, you couldn't know how things would turn out, you can't control others... blah, blah. But really, here is all this painful and not ideal reality with these children you generously adopted (and for yourself too) and with your own biological son. And now the worry and uncertainty about Sonic. It is all very human and natural that you should feel as you do! I for one am not going to say "Don't be silly, don't feel like that!" All I know is... that the beginning and ending of everything - and so very hard to do sometimes - is the peace that we come to with ourselves, and the loving kindness that we generate towards our own hearts and minds, and then by extension outwards to others. So I don't know what else to tell you other than that you seem like a kind lady, you have acted with kindness in your life, and now maybe you can turn that kindness very purposefully onto yourself :) [/QUOTE]
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