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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 533717" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Pam...oddly we are a lot alike though I got my kids the old fashioned way and am a bit younger than you (and was a lot wilder than you!) </p><p></p><p>I have often thought I maybe shouldnt have had kids. Lord knows when I look at Cory and see all his struggles I think I should have stopped with Jamie! But then Billy has a whole lot of physical issues that are probably linked back to me genetically and his aspergers is most likely passed down from his father so I feel guilty over that so I have felt that I probably shouldnt have had him which leaves maybe only having Jamie and even with Jamie, he has ADHD and some arthritis setting in and the ADHD is either from me or Tony's side so darn....we probably shouldnt have had kids. </p><p></p><p>Then I think...but if not for the kids I wouldnt have the grandchildren. </p><p></p><p>I have had to deal with knowing that Cory was disabled for a long time. I dont know what the outcome is going to be there. I have some real worries. There is no way he could go in to any sort of group home or supportive living because he simply wouldnt meet that type of criteria. He also wouldnt go. He couldnt take his kids with him. It is depressing. I dont have friends outside of the computer and I go nowhere other than doctors and shopping. Well, I do go to see the kids once or twice a year. I try to make memories with my grandchildren so they will remember me when I am gone. Thats what I think of.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 533717, member: 1514"] Pam...oddly we are a lot alike though I got my kids the old fashioned way and am a bit younger than you (and was a lot wilder than you!) I have often thought I maybe shouldnt have had kids. Lord knows when I look at Cory and see all his struggles I think I should have stopped with Jamie! But then Billy has a whole lot of physical issues that are probably linked back to me genetically and his aspergers is most likely passed down from his father so I feel guilty over that so I have felt that I probably shouldnt have had him which leaves maybe only having Jamie and even with Jamie, he has ADHD and some arthritis setting in and the ADHD is either from me or Tony's side so darn....we probably shouldnt have had kids. Then I think...but if not for the kids I wouldnt have the grandchildren. I have had to deal with knowing that Cory was disabled for a long time. I dont know what the outcome is going to be there. I have some real worries. There is no way he could go in to any sort of group home or supportive living because he simply wouldnt meet that type of criteria. He also wouldnt go. He couldnt take his kids with him. It is depressing. I dont have friends outside of the computer and I go nowhere other than doctors and shopping. Well, I do go to see the kids once or twice a year. I try to make memories with my grandchildren so they will remember me when I am gone. Thats what I think of. [/QUOTE]
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