Good morning Raelene,
The website for be'calmd is http://www.neurecovery.com/becalm/
This you can have your child take without intervention from a doctor, however I always recommend you run things by a doctor, Our naturalpath checked out the ingredients and thought it was okay. FYI, things got worse before they got better.
I use Pharmax fish oil 1 teaspoon a day, We get this from our naturalpath.
If you want to attempt the natural approach, seek out a homeopath doctor in your area. We are currently frustrated with that approach but for some it works.
Suzanne