NOLA, your husband's letter is pretty powerful. I thank you for posting it. It does highlight a difference between men and women. It is important to remember that we are different, we react differently to some situation.
He is telling you that it is OK for you to react the way you do and he supports you in your way. But, he has his own way and it sounds like you are not accepting of his way of dealing. I think it is because you feel you should do more.
Can you think of anything else to try that you have not already tried? I am sure husband would be willing to listen to a new idea.
