Thanks all. Well he has called several times today although I was not home so obviously did not pick up. I have decided that when he calls I will take the call but state clearly that if he is abusive to me that I will hang up and then I am done with the phone for the day... I will not answer if he calls back. I am also going to say that I am done with the discussion about canteen money and getting in touch with the girlfriend. I am not negotiating any of that any more.
I am pretty calm about it and it is only because i have had so much darned practice!! I am waiting for him to tell me that she is not really pregnant at which point I will have to just ask him so was that you just trying to manipulate me to get what you want? I thought so and I dont like it!!
For that 6 months at that program, except for the first week, he was respectful and pleasant.... now he has relapsed and in jail and he is back to being a manipulative little koi!
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