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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 754140" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>I haven't posted on here for quite sometime. Younger DGD is now 19 and is 4 months pregnant. And the "dad" is the same guy that we have dealt with since she was 14 and would sneak out of the house to be with him. </p><p></p><p>Ive been going to AlAnon for 2.5 years. So it is helping me to cope better than I normally would. This summer, while boyfriend was in jail for 60 days for probation violation, I mailed him a letter of amends. I didn't absolve him of all the wrong things he and DGD had done, but I admitted that it was wrong of me to place all the blame on him. That she was now 19 and was responsible for her actions, the same as him. </p><p></p><p>The day he got out of jail I offered to by BC for DGD. She refused, says she hasn't used BC for 5 years. Thinks she can't get pregnant, plus he wouldn't wear a condom anyway. Well, she must have gotten pregnant that first night, based on her due date.</p><p></p><p>He's been out of jail for 4 months and has not found a job. He has only done community service (4 hours) one time. He goes back to court Tuesday and the PO wants him to serve 90 days. Except for the stress it will cause DGD during the pregnancy, I hope he does. </p><p></p><p>They are living with his dad and girlfriend, which is a pretty good place. The first half of this year they lived with his mom, which was not good. She is an alcoholic. My boundaries are set...he can not stay here. If DGD needed to, and she follows the house rules, she could. But she won't leave his side for one night...either that or he won't let her.</p><p></p><p>He is still married, and has two children he has no parental rights to. And the kids mom has lost custody of them too. Their last child was born premature and addicted to drugs. His wife is in another relationship but DGD has found texts and photos on her phone that they were sending to each other.</p><p></p><p>But, I'm letting go. I will not raise a third generation. husband and I are focusing on ourselves.</p><p></p><p>Oh, older DGD (21) had her BC implant removed last week. Younger DGD said she's wanting a baby, too. Sigh. Neither should be having children. More on older later. I'll make it a separate post.</p><p></p><p>Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 754140, member: 12511"] I haven't posted on here for quite sometime. Younger DGD is now 19 and is 4 months pregnant. And the "dad" is the same guy that we have dealt with since she was 14 and would sneak out of the house to be with him. Ive been going to AlAnon for 2.5 years. So it is helping me to cope better than I normally would. This summer, while boyfriend was in jail for 60 days for probation violation, I mailed him a letter of amends. I didn't absolve him of all the wrong things he and DGD had done, but I admitted that it was wrong of me to place all the blame on him. That she was now 19 and was responsible for her actions, the same as him. The day he got out of jail I offered to by BC for DGD. She refused, says she hasn't used BC for 5 years. Thinks she can't get pregnant, plus he wouldn't wear a condom anyway. Well, she must have gotten pregnant that first night, based on her due date. He's been out of jail for 4 months and has not found a job. He has only done community service (4 hours) one time. He goes back to court Tuesday and the PO wants him to serve 90 days. Except for the stress it will cause DGD during the pregnancy, I hope he does. They are living with his dad and girlfriend, which is a pretty good place. The first half of this year they lived with his mom, which was not good. She is an alcoholic. My boundaries are set...he can not stay here. If DGD needed to, and she follows the house rules, she could. But she won't leave his side for one night...either that or he won't let her. He is still married, and has two children he has no parental rights to. And the kids mom has lost custody of them too. Their last child was born premature and addicted to drugs. His wife is in another relationship but DGD has found texts and photos on her phone that they were sending to each other. But, I'm letting go. I will not raise a third generation. husband and I are focusing on ourselves. Oh, older DGD (21) had her BC implant removed last week. Younger DGD said she's wanting a baby, too. Sigh. Neither should be having children. More on older later. I'll make it a separate post. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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