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Did I give birth to an unicorn? Or three easy steps to become a guru
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 665100" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa, I think it all depends on who you ask.</p><p></p><p>I think it is standing up to the person. The silent message is "You respect me or I will not share your space. It is too hurtful."</p><p></p><p>Words turn into arguments.</p><p></p><p>I am sooooooooooooooooo learning "less is more."</p><p></p><p>It was never your fault when your mother acted badly. If you think it is in your own mind, then you will feel like it was your fault,, but your mother had free will and did what she wanted to do and you couldn't make her do or say anything. She is responsible for what she says and does, as we all are. If she was mean to you and you pulled away, that is just a natural reaction. Trust me, I pulled away from my mother too, and, like you, I did try to make it better, although not as hard as you did...and I didn't consider the price as high. But we tried and that's all we can do as humans. We can't make anyone else try (shrug)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 665100, member: 1550"] Copa, I think it all depends on who you ask. I think it is standing up to the person. The silent message is "You respect me or I will not share your space. It is too hurtful." Words turn into arguments. I am sooooooooooooooooo learning "less is more." It was never your fault when your mother acted badly. If you think it is in your own mind, then you will feel like it was your fault,, but your mother had free will and did what she wanted to do and you couldn't make her do or say anything. She is responsible for what she says and does, as we all are. If she was mean to you and you pulled away, that is just a natural reaction. Trust me, I pulled away from my mother too, and, like you, I did try to make it better, although not as hard as you did...and I didn't consider the price as high. But we tried and that's all we can do as humans. We can't make anyone else try (shrug) [/QUOTE]
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