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Did I give birth to an unicorn? Or three easy steps to become a guru
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 665103" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Your mother was lucky that you loved her enough to give her the benefit of every doubt. That speaks to your heart and seeing the good where there isn't any, but to you it's still there.</p><p>I am such a cynic. I think I was born that way. I don't see the good. I listen to the words and take them at face value. "When I held you in my arms I felt nothing, absolutely nothing" for years was laughed about as "That's just mother."</p><p></p><p>Yes, that is mother. What's wrong with her not only to feel that way but to tell me she had felt that way? In my mind, I excused it when I was very young, but the older I grew, the more I realized how dangerous this statement is. If you don't love your infant, the infant has many lifetime ramifications. And she didn't want to hold me either so she didn't. I paid. All of us paid.</p><p></p><p>I would not want my mother back for anything. If she came back again, I would not want to know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 665103, member: 1550"] Your mother was lucky that you loved her enough to give her the benefit of every doubt. That speaks to your heart and seeing the good where there isn't any, but to you it's still there. I am such a cynic. I think I was born that way. I don't see the good. I listen to the words and take them at face value. "When I held you in my arms I felt nothing, absolutely nothing" for years was laughed about as "That's just mother." Yes, that is mother. What's wrong with her not only to feel that way but to tell me she had felt that way? In my mind, I excused it when I was very young, but the older I grew, the more I realized how dangerous this statement is. If you don't love your infant, the infant has many lifetime ramifications. And she didn't want to hold me either so she didn't. I paid. All of us paid. I would not want my mother back for anything. If she came back again, I would not want to know. [/QUOTE]
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