buddy,
Oh yes, thats so true on the Medical files! With his speech, I did have to sign a form to release the medical info between them and medicaid, which they are reviewing yet again this year! If you heard him, you would be able to tell his speech issue.One parent at his baseball game thought he was from another state last year, thinking he had an accent! I told her no mam, he has a speech issue. She replied: Sorry, couldn't understand him" And the bathroom issue, yes, it was constant last year, few times this year and here at home. I am sorry your cousin had to deal with it for so long, poor thing! 
. I will still keep my eyes opened at his school. Thanks!
