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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 646047" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I'm so sorry to read this. I just don't know what more you can do! His wife certainly needs to control the money! When I was first married to Jabber, we had two accounts, one all our joint money went into and one that was just his...about $200 a pay period. That was his to do with as he pleased. The rest paid the bills, etc., and was "mine". (Yeah...he's put up with a lot.) Maybe your daughter in law could get something like that set up where he can't drain the joint account? Then again, if he's using he might not agree.</p><p> </p><p>Which doesn't answer your question as to whether to make him leave but I'm just at a loss myself. It's somewhat horrifying to think of a father in the home with young kids doing heroin...in his own parent's home. I think the right thing to do would be to make him leave...but I am much like you...it would tear me up if there is a possibility he could get it together. But really, what else is left? After an od and detox, he's still using.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 646047, member: 17309"] I'm so sorry to read this. I just don't know what more you can do! His wife certainly needs to control the money! When I was first married to Jabber, we had two accounts, one all our joint money went into and one that was just his...about $200 a pay period. That was his to do with as he pleased. The rest paid the bills, etc., and was "mine". (Yeah...he's put up with a lot.) Maybe your daughter in law could get something like that set up where he can't drain the joint account? Then again, if he's using he might not agree. Which doesn't answer your question as to whether to make him leave but I'm just at a loss myself. It's somewhat horrifying to think of a father in the home with young kids doing heroin...in his own parent's home. I think the right thing to do would be to make him leave...but I am much like you...it would tear me up if there is a possibility he could get it together. But really, what else is left? After an od and detox, he's still using. [/QUOTE]
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