That sounds so much like my difficult child - He is so ADHD - fidgety, distracted, unable to organize himself - but does not have the Aspie traits required to meet an Aspie diagnosis.
I'm very interested in the Auditory Processing Disorders (APD) and Sensory Integration Disorder (SID) and am going to look into them further.
This conversation is very informative and interesting. I'm finding it very helpful. Thank you!