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difficult child 1 and Christmas
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 640437" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I think I would ask her for her address and if she does provide it, then I would send her a card, just a card, expressing my sadness at her departure from my life, but still wishing her a good holiday season. I would not tend to reward angry and hurtful behavior with any gifts. If she refuses to give her address, then I would simply send an email expressing the same sentiment. </p><p></p><p>I also believe, if she were so angry at you, then she would have returned your checks, that would be in the realm of a somewhat "normal" reaction. But, she will take what you give her and then refuse to acknowledge you. I don't know, that sounds so immature, childish, selfish and entitled to me. A rational adult would handle that quite differently I think. </p><p></p><p>But, of course, that is simply my 2 cents, I think we all have to act in ways that are in alignment with our beliefs, our ethics and our hearts.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 640437, member: 13542"] I think I would ask her for her address and if she does provide it, then I would send her a card, just a card, expressing my sadness at her departure from my life, but still wishing her a good holiday season. I would not tend to reward angry and hurtful behavior with any gifts. If she refuses to give her address, then I would simply send an email expressing the same sentiment. I also believe, if she were so angry at you, then she would have returned your checks, that would be in the realm of a somewhat "normal" reaction. But, she will take what you give her and then refuse to acknowledge you. I don't know, that sounds so immature, childish, selfish and entitled to me. A rational adult would handle that quite differently I think. But, of course, that is simply my 2 cents, I think we all have to act in ways that are in alignment with our beliefs, our ethics and our hearts. [/QUOTE]
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