He does sound like he's struggling, Marg. First off, I'd try to get some sleep. I know what you mean by worrying ... still, it's only going to get worse if you don't sleep. I'm sending calming thoughts and vibes ...
In regard to the computer, my son is like that, and we have limits on his time. You've read enough of my notes to know how hard it is to enforce, to the degree where we've installed deadbolts, had numerous locks replaced, and disassemble the computer at times. So it is no easy task, but I am convinced that it is worth it. The repetition and sometimes visual speed in the games is stimming but/and too much creates so much agitation that the kids can't focus on anything else.
Best of luck! I hear you!
