Well, we're back from the appointments. The disability employment agency are now on difficult child 3's case, he sees them again next Monday.
The pediatrician has okayed a reduction of citalopram but also ordered an MRI in case there is something physical happening. He suggested we arrange to show difficult child 3 what is involved with MRI ahead of time so he can prepare himself. If there are problems, we may have to go the route of sedation, but I think he will be okay.
Now we have to choose which subjects to drop for now. The school doesn't want us to drop everything. The one subject I felt he could continue, he just got his assessment task back and he failed. So that one maybe has to go...
It will take a month or more to taper off the citalopram, so I think this reduces difficult child 3's chances of catching up with his work. I have to notify the school of our decision ASAP, but I think we need to go in and meet with them in order to make the wisest decision. difficult child 3 has to own the decision also.
Marg