The medication citropalom? is generic for Lexapro, right? Can't it cause lack of motivation? Probably good for anxiety and obsession, but might well be part of the problem.
Marg, just a thought. My oldest has been to some therapuetic programs this past year. There are a number of Aspies. Programs have heavily focused on outdoors, physical challenge kind of stuff. (not boot camp, think therapeutic outdoor reacreation). It has helped with social skills, self confidence, and weaning off of computer stuff. One thought--maybe he needs a total break from school for a few months to do something like that?