ksm --- We booted our son out at age 16 following a particular police call to our home. He was on probation at the time, so we had to obtain permission from the probation officer (legally). Our son's older sister agreed to take him in and the probation officer agreed to it. It had gotten so ugly at home, we just could stand no other option.
Are there any current legal issues involved?
It only worked out with his sister for a few months, and then he moved to a series of homes (various family and friends) -- each ending the same way.........they all kicked him out.
It was a rocky road with our relationship and our son's life for a number of years (he's now 25). However, enough reality checks, arrests, rehabs, and homeless days on the street eventually caught up with our son and he decided (well, he's still in the process of deciding.....but acting upon it tangibly) to surrender parts of his harsh life one at a time (like I said, still in progress).
I recall the very same feelings you expressed. You are not alone! I think most of us feel that at one time or another.
The thing I recall most is how incredibly relaxed I was finally able to be in letting down my guard in my own home. It was clarifying and healing.
Remember this........ No one (and I mean NO ONE) should have to feel on constant guard in their own home.
Sending you all best thoughts...... Take care!
