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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 599159" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Thanks for the reminder. Will make sure about that. In fact I have already had to think how much I will allow him to bash his girlfriend for me. I know he is hurting and his off hand comments about girlfriend this or that have been quite easy to ignore, but I really don't want even him bashing his ex-girlfriend. Not a good habit for future purposes. After all, there may be a day in future when he is breaking up with someone he has more in common than having to decide who gets a custody of the dog.</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately with the flat we are little short of time so it may be we have to move him same time she moves out. And anyway they have to decide some practicalities together. They have to split furniture and decide what to do with rest etc. difficult child has a few old quality furniture we or his grands gave him from our attics and he does have a good bed, but other than that, their furniture is lower quality second hand or Ikea. Gas is expensive and we have told difficult child we will only make one trip with van and a wagon. What can't be fitted to those, he has to get rid off. So that is something they have to settle between the two.</p><p></p><p>And I do believe that it will be different situation when both I and husband and girlfriend's parents are there to help with move. Much less likely to get volatile than in drunk party with friends.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 599159, member: 14557"] Thanks for the reminder. Will make sure about that. In fact I have already had to think how much I will allow him to bash his girlfriend for me. I know he is hurting and his off hand comments about girlfriend this or that have been quite easy to ignore, but I really don't want even him bashing his ex-girlfriend. Not a good habit for future purposes. After all, there may be a day in future when he is breaking up with someone he has more in common than having to decide who gets a custody of the dog. Unfortunately with the flat we are little short of time so it may be we have to move him same time she moves out. And anyway they have to decide some practicalities together. They have to split furniture and decide what to do with rest etc. difficult child has a few old quality furniture we or his grands gave him from our attics and he does have a good bed, but other than that, their furniture is lower quality second hand or Ikea. Gas is expensive and we have told difficult child we will only make one trip with van and a wagon. What can't be fitted to those, he has to get rid off. So that is something they have to settle between the two. And I do believe that it will be different situation when both I and husband and girlfriend's parents are there to help with move. Much less likely to get volatile than in drunk party with friends. [/QUOTE]
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