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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 478861" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Video. Seriously, can you video him reacting when someone calls him a name. I don't think he's lying when he says he wouldn't care. I think he believes that in the moment, or doesn't remember how he really does react, or maybe doesn't really understand in "normal" terms how his reaction actually comes off to other ppl. If you video and SHOW him. Look, you were upset, you were yelling, etc. THEN if he denies it go from there, but I have a feeling he'll come up with another explanation (similar to the reasons changing as to why you "don't love him")</p><p></p><p>My friend's daughter had a similar thing with other kids being "mean" to her. They weren't. There were just other things that the other kids were better at, but this girl considered that as them being "mean" to her. I think she's finally stopped that, but it went on for years. Friend was constantly explaining to her that the other kids were NOT being "mean" but hey were just better than her at some things, just like she was MUCH better at other things. Was she being "mean" when she did things better? NO. Again, it took a few years for this girl to "get it". by the way the only valid diagnosis she has is anxiety. There's something else going on so investigating other dxes, but nothing seems to "fit".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 478861, member: 11965"] Video. Seriously, can you video him reacting when someone calls him a name. I don't think he's lying when he says he wouldn't care. I think he believes that in the moment, or doesn't remember how he really does react, or maybe doesn't really understand in "normal" terms how his reaction actually comes off to other ppl. If you video and SHOW him. Look, you were upset, you were yelling, etc. THEN if he denies it go from there, but I have a feeling he'll come up with another explanation (similar to the reasons changing as to why you "don't love him") My friend's daughter had a similar thing with other kids being "mean" to her. They weren't. There were just other things that the other kids were better at, but this girl considered that as them being "mean" to her. I think she's finally stopped that, but it went on for years. Friend was constantly explaining to her that the other kids were NOT being "mean" but hey were just better than her at some things, just like she was MUCH better at other things. Was she being "mean" when she did things better? NO. Again, it took a few years for this girl to "get it". by the way the only valid diagnosis she has is anxiety. There's something else going on so investigating other dxes, but nothing seems to "fit". [/QUOTE]
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