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difficult child called several times today....
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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 62882" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>These were long conversations, so I will just condense the just of them.</p><p></p><p>The first call was left with the guilt on me. ~ he wouldn't be in such a mess if I hadn't thrown him out.</p><p></p><p>The next three calls were him admitting to using and drug use being the reason he wasn't living at home and he acknowledged our past conversations of how I wouldn't help him if he was using but I would if he was trying to live right.</p><p></p><p>He got the po'# and called her. Called me back and said he had to pay 500 on fri (I think she is just trying to get him there)</p><p></p><p>He never asked for anything other than paperwork (warrant #)</p><p></p><p>I ended several calls with ~ you were raised better, you cannot run from this, you will never get ahead looking over your shoulder.</p><p></p><p>He agreed with me. I also let him know that he knew the reason I raised him and his sis alone and not to let any of his bio-dad's family take advantage of him because that is what they do. He also agreed with me about that, so something has happened. He was here in Ala at his biodad's when he called.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I was okay with the calls. I was really shocked after the first one because I used to get anxiety attacks when I hung up from him but this time I was able to just go back to work. My mind did race at first about how to help (so hard to let go) but I stopped myself and said he can call a rehab # if he is ready for help.</p><p></p><p>I know he is a charmer and I am the one he learned his craft on.</p><p></p><p>I have two eyes wide open. My hope for change is always there but, I didn't hear it in his voice. What I heard was this is starting to bother me living like this but if I can find an easier way I will take it before I turn myself in.</p><p></p><p>I hope he proves me wrong...</p><p></p><p>Traci</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 62882, member: 2389"] These were long conversations, so I will just condense the just of them. The first call was left with the guilt on me. ~ he wouldn't be in such a mess if I hadn't thrown him out. The next three calls were him admitting to using and drug use being the reason he wasn't living at home and he acknowledged our past conversations of how I wouldn't help him if he was using but I would if he was trying to live right. He got the po'# and called her. Called me back and said he had to pay 500 on fri (I think she is just trying to get him there) He never asked for anything other than paperwork (warrant #) I ended several calls with ~ you were raised better, you cannot run from this, you will never get ahead looking over your shoulder. He agreed with me. I also let him know that he knew the reason I raised him and his sis alone and not to let any of his bio-dad's family take advantage of him because that is what they do. He also agreed with me about that, so something has happened. He was here in Ala at his biodad's when he called. I was okay with the calls. I was really shocked after the first one because I used to get anxiety attacks when I hung up from him but this time I was able to just go back to work. My mind did race at first about how to help (so hard to let go) but I stopped myself and said he can call a rehab # if he is ready for help. I know he is a charmer and I am the one he learned his craft on. I have two eyes wide open. My hope for change is always there but, I didn't hear it in his voice. What I heard was this is starting to bother me living like this but if I can find an easier way I will take it before I turn myself in. I hope he proves me wrong... Traci [/QUOTE]
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