Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
difficult child Caught on Camera--
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 238106" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>Daisyface: If I were you I would make some special effort to remove your younger son from this "lesson" plan as he has been abused and neglected under his sisters treatment for however long and it is not his job to be the target of her abusiveness or to serve as the measure of her incrimental learning steps forward out of her abusive meathods of interacting.</p><p></p><p>It is to bad that things were to this point befor you really were "knowing" what was going on. Now you do know and the boy has other things that are not connected to wether or not or when his sister is going to "let" him be safe in his own home.</p><p></p><p>children who are loving by nature are all to often left as punch bags and targets and the fact is this family has neglected his safty. Wittingly or unwittingly. </p><p></p><p>Seperate her in the house with a schedual and spend the time to correct her when he is elsewhere, like at a play date or at a special class or practising a sport.</p><p></p><p>She has dominated the boy in the secret of the rooms out of sight and she has habits to break.</p><p>Without her doing that to him he will likely just do the things that are for his growing and he deserves the time out from this behavior of his sister.</p><p></p><p>Apologise to him and let him know that he is not to tolerate that from his sister anylonger. you want him to say what is happening to you and not to cover up for the bad behavior of anyone ever.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 238106, member: 6271"] Daisyface: If I were you I would make some special effort to remove your younger son from this "lesson" plan as he has been abused and neglected under his sisters treatment for however long and it is not his job to be the target of her abusiveness or to serve as the measure of her incrimental learning steps forward out of her abusive meathods of interacting. It is to bad that things were to this point befor you really were "knowing" what was going on. Now you do know and the boy has other things that are not connected to wether or not or when his sister is going to "let" him be safe in his own home. children who are loving by nature are all to often left as punch bags and targets and the fact is this family has neglected his safty. Wittingly or unwittingly. Seperate her in the house with a schedual and spend the time to correct her when he is elsewhere, like at a play date or at a special class or practising a sport. She has dominated the boy in the secret of the rooms out of sight and she has habits to break. Without her doing that to him he will likely just do the things that are for his growing and he deserves the time out from this behavior of his sister. Apologise to him and let him know that he is not to tolerate that from his sister anylonger. you want him to say what is happening to you and not to cover up for the bad behavior of anyone ever. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
difficult child Caught on Camera--
Top