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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 583911" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Yes, he is almost 18, but I really don'tknow if things will change much. 17yo is so attached to his mom, and so scared to defy her. </p><p></p><p>Before the divorce mom moved out and into her boyfriend's house, leaving the kids with dad temporarily, and still had them convinced that the divorce and problems were all dad's fault. She had had a boyfriend for more than a year, yet somehow she wasn't to blame for anything. It's really strange, the hold she has over him.</p><p></p><p>For instance, a few months ago she called 17yo when he was here at his dad's house and told him to bring her certain dvds that dad had gotten in the divorce. Dad heard the conversation because he was sitting right there and told 17yo that mom had no right to the dvds and he wasn't going to give them to her. 17yo could not understand why she wasn't entitled to have them. Dad explained about the divorce settlement and how they had sat down and divided them up and she had taken what she wanted and now nothing in the house belonged to her but he still wasn't convinced. </p><p></p><p>Dad called X and told her not to ask 17yo to get her stuff from the house or put him in the middle of their divorce. First she denied having told him to do it, then proceeded to explain why she was entitled to get the dvds.</p><p></p><p>17yo will always make excuses for her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 583911, member: 16024"] Yes, he is almost 18, but I really don'tknow if things will change much. 17yo is so attached to his mom, and so scared to defy her. Before the divorce mom moved out and into her boyfriend's house, leaving the kids with dad temporarily, and still had them convinced that the divorce and problems were all dad's fault. She had had a boyfriend for more than a year, yet somehow she wasn't to blame for anything. It's really strange, the hold she has over him. For instance, a few months ago she called 17yo when he was here at his dad's house and told him to bring her certain dvds that dad had gotten in the divorce. Dad heard the conversation because he was sitting right there and told 17yo that mom had no right to the dvds and he wasn't going to give them to her. 17yo could not understand why she wasn't entitled to have them. Dad explained about the divorce settlement and how they had sat down and divided them up and she had taken what she wanted and now nothing in the house belonged to her but he still wasn't convinced. Dad called X and told her not to ask 17yo to get her stuff from the house or put him in the middle of their divorce. First she denied having told him to do it, then proceeded to explain why she was entitled to get the dvds. 17yo will always make excuses for her. [/QUOTE]
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