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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 516365" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>amelia, </p><p></p><p>You don't think if she was around other people that were like her she could thrive? I don't know if you saw my post or not, but there are a lot of people that have Borderline (BPD) that function every day out in the real world. I just wonder if anyone has even ever brought it up to her that she isn't the only blind, ablino persecuted person in the world that needs help. (not being mean either) - </p><p></p><p>As for her issues and living on her own? I guess my other line of thinking removed from my above post would be - Have you considered then WHAT would happen to her if something happened to you tomorrow? How would she get by? What would she do? Have the two of you even discussed this with some kind of therapist as a mediator? Someday it is going to be a reality -it is for all of us sooner or later. And at 24 - she really needs to start thinking - IF Mom isn't here - where do I go, what do I do.....where will I be, HOW will I survive? It's reality. Better to talk about it now with each other and a mediator (therapist) than for you to be gone (god forbid) and her shoved off somewhere where NOT A SINGLE person can be her voice or eyes. </p><p></p><p>Hugs -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 516365, member: 4964"] amelia, You don't think if she was around other people that were like her she could thrive? I don't know if you saw my post or not, but there are a lot of people that have Borderline (BPD) that function every day out in the real world. I just wonder if anyone has even ever brought it up to her that she isn't the only blind, ablino persecuted person in the world that needs help. (not being mean either) - As for her issues and living on her own? I guess my other line of thinking removed from my above post would be - Have you considered then WHAT would happen to her if something happened to you tomorrow? How would she get by? What would she do? Have the two of you even discussed this with some kind of therapist as a mediator? Someday it is going to be a reality -it is for all of us sooner or later. And at 24 - she really needs to start thinking - IF Mom isn't here - where do I go, what do I do.....where will I be, HOW will I survive? It's reality. Better to talk about it now with each other and a mediator (therapist) than for you to be gone (god forbid) and her shoved off somewhere where NOT A SINGLE person can be her voice or eyes. Hugs - [/QUOTE]
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