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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 561870" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Suzir, I have Aspie traits too, but have never been diagnosed. I guess I don't have enough of them, but they are there and they do impede me. And I was badly bullied too. in my opinion, I was bullied BECAUSE of my Aspie traits. I really did not understand how to get along with the kids, was different and obnoxious at times and didn't know it until I noticed that my "friends" were ditching me until I didn't have any friends anymore. Getting teased, beaten up by boys (I was a small girl) and having the teachers side with the popular kids who were bullying me did nothing to help, trust me on that. By the time I learned to fight back and win, I didn't much care for people and didn't trust many.</p><p></p><p>I know how it feels to feel like the outsider. I always have. To a point, I have learned through the years how to deal with people, more on a superficial level than ever being comfy in a crowd. I feel sadness for your son and hope he finds more friends close to his age very soon and I know your mommy heart is hurting for him and I'm sad about that as well. He WILL find friends, probably not a ton, but they will be very close to him and understand him and his ways. And he will appreciate them a lot.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 561870, member: 1550"] Suzir, I have Aspie traits too, but have never been diagnosed. I guess I don't have enough of them, but they are there and they do impede me. And I was badly bullied too. in my opinion, I was bullied BECAUSE of my Aspie traits. I really did not understand how to get along with the kids, was different and obnoxious at times and didn't know it until I noticed that my "friends" were ditching me until I didn't have any friends anymore. Getting teased, beaten up by boys (I was a small girl) and having the teachers side with the popular kids who were bullying me did nothing to help, trust me on that. By the time I learned to fight back and win, I didn't much care for people and didn't trust many. I know how it feels to feel like the outsider. I always have. To a point, I have learned through the years how to deal with people, more on a superficial level than ever being comfy in a crowd. I feel sadness for your son and hope he finds more friends close to his age very soon and I know your mommy heart is hurting for him and I'm sad about that as well. He WILL find friends, probably not a ton, but they will be very close to him and understand him and his ways. And he will appreciate them a lot. [/QUOTE]
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