I have read this thread since you first posted, and I just don't know where to start. I totally get everything that you are saying. But the father son thing that is going on here just makes me sick. Particularly the "father" part of it.
I guess we know that there are druggies and losers who never grow up, and eventually they even grow into old men (and women) and some never change their ways. But to be carrying on with his son that way!
Yes, there should be a special place in hell.