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<blockquote data-quote="aeroeng" data-source="post: 286546" data-attributes="member: 6557"><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">MidwestMom,</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">Where on the spectrum? kind of hard to say. Something's he does very well others not so. I don't believe he wants to hurt anyone, I believe he just does not understand. I also believe he is frustrated and sadden when forced to leave, and is not socially aware. For difficult child taking the son home is not a working option, because difficult child will be spending a little over a week visiting there. But I like the ideas of a signal to stop (stop, game end), then going to the bathroom, and coming out with a different activity in mind. Then if hitting continues have the aunt enforce a longer separation. Maybe go for a walk without cousin.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">As far as Hubby goes, he does not believe he has Aspersers, he is not sure it even exists, and is not interested in learning about it or getting tested. I, however, believe he is Aspersers. Even before I knew much about Aspersers when we were dating I would be confused. He obviously loved me very much, and I knew he would never purposely hurt me. So I knew when he did hurt me they were not intentional, but how could he possibly not understand his actions would cause pain? </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #000000">He is friendly and social. He has lots of friends and enjoys having a good time, but is weak on social clues. When dating I took him to one of my favorite movies, Herald and Maud. The movie is kind of strange and is about a relationship between Herald (a teenager) and Maud (about to turn 80). Maud teaches Herald how to live life, and experience things. That death is only part of the cycle. husband only saw the strange elements which focused on death and was totally confused as to why this was my favorite movie, because he knew I did not like slasher movies. He simply could not see any of the social elements which is what I liked about it. So even if he is a loving, caring father and husband he is little help. (I'll keep him anyway)</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aeroeng, post: 286546, member: 6557"] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]MidwestMom,[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]Where on the spectrum? kind of hard to say. Something's he does very well others not so. I don't believe he wants to hurt anyone, I believe he just does not understand. I also believe he is frustrated and sadden when forced to leave, and is not socially aware. For difficult child taking the son home is not a working option, because difficult child will be spending a little over a week visiting there. But I like the ideas of a signal to stop (stop, game end), then going to the bathroom, and coming out with a different activity in mind. Then if hitting continues have the aunt enforce a longer separation. Maybe go for a walk without cousin.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]As far as Hubby goes, he does not believe he has Aspersers, he is not sure it even exists, and is not interested in learning about it or getting tested. I, however, believe he is Aspersers. Even before I knew much about Aspersers when we were dating I would be confused. He obviously loved me very much, and I knew he would never purposely hurt me. So I knew when he did hurt me they were not intentional, but how could he possibly not understand his actions would cause pain? [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3][COLOR=#000000]He is friendly and social. He has lots of friends and enjoys having a good time, but is weak on social clues. When dating I took him to one of my favorite movies, Herald and Maud. The movie is kind of strange and is about a relationship between Herald (a teenager) and Maud (about to turn 80). Maud teaches Herald how to live life, and experience things. That death is only part of the cycle. husband only saw the strange elements which focused on death and was totally confused as to why this was my favorite movie, because he knew I did not like slasher movies. He simply could not see any of the social elements which is what I liked about it. So even if he is a loving, caring father and husband he is little help. (I'll keep him anyway)[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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