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<blockquote data-quote="Skylark Matrix" data-source="post: 68217" data-attributes="member: 3919"><p>I know the money is legally hers and it is all hers, I didn't contribute. If I give it all over to her now it will be gone in a couple of days and she may even use it for something really stupid like going to Vancouver (or Tuktiyuktuk !!! LOL) to meet some new boyfriend and then I will be in a big anxiety attack. I know I shouldn't try to help her this way, but a small part of me is still really hoping college on Sept 17 will be a new start and she'll make it work. She'll need the money then and hopefully use it properly.</p><p>A new item of disrespect: Even though I cleaned her room I did leave some things as she had them, one being a "Jones" bottle collection on a shelf. I did not want her to feel like I garbaged her whole life, I want that to always be her room, even though it is not decorated with dirty underwear, garbage and food scraps. Today I am doing windows and discovered when one bottle fell over that it was an "8 Ball rye and coke". We do not drink ever, even extended family just know not to bring liquor here. I had no idea it was there as it sort of looks similar to a jones bottle. This is a new low for me to deal with and I am not very happy about it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Skylark Matrix, post: 68217, member: 3919"] I know the money is legally hers and it is all hers, I didn't contribute. If I give it all over to her now it will be gone in a couple of days and she may even use it for something really stupid like going to Vancouver (or Tuktiyuktuk !!! LOL) to meet some new boyfriend and then I will be in a big anxiety attack. I know I shouldn't try to help her this way, but a small part of me is still really hoping college on Sept 17 will be a new start and she'll make it work. She'll need the money then and hopefully use it properly. A new item of disrespect: Even though I cleaned her room I did leave some things as she had them, one being a "Jones" bottle collection on a shelf. I did not want her to feel like I garbaged her whole life, I want that to always be her room, even though it is not decorated with dirty underwear, garbage and food scraps. Today I am doing windows and discovered when one bottle fell over that it was an "8 Ball rye and coke". We do not drink ever, even extended family just know not to bring liquor here. I had no idea it was there as it sort of looks similar to a jones bottle. This is a new low for me to deal with and I am not very happy about it. [/QUOTE]
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