"I will not kick him out unless he becomes violent or uses drugs or refuses to work or steal."
Katmom, I think these need to be your rules. in my humble opinion, the others you have listed are a waste of breath. It might make him miserable but it will make you miserable, too. At 18, I think you need to only list the deal-breakers in a contract because you know darn well he will argue the rest. Now it might be that if he's a slob that will be a deal breaker...if so, add it to the list...but only if it's a deal breaker.
When we did a contract with Rob we also had all participants sign and date the contract.
Suz
