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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 171419" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>reasonable? yeahhhhhhhh not so much ( like Glen Beck) </p><p> </p><p>I think that what she did is equivalent of dog p on the hydrant logic. </p><p> </p><p>My Mother years ago (did not like my x but kept mum) sent him 2 things for Christmas at 2 different times in our 13 years of marriage - </p><p> </p><p>1> a lump of coal</p><p>2> a ball cap that said if I can't eat it or screw it I pi@@ on it. </p><p> </p><p>When you get down to a bare bone minimalist type of thinking? She was right (at least about my x) but it applies to such a broad spectrum of user people. </p><p> </p><p>I like Sues idea of the "Situation" for spending that "QUALITY" time with easy child 1. EESH - at my house? nope. At a park, restaurant, movie where you also supervised? Yeah. </p><p> </p><p>I get type A people. I worked for one high maintenance man who was A+++++ for years - his family loved me - he went home without stress from ME. I cared not for his moods and told him how life with me as his executive secretary was. I probably am an A- type A. I like what I like how I like it and I'm not a bendy straw. So if what had happened in your home happend in MY home? And I was out of the hospital? YOU CAN BET - if I still had any connections at Sea World, my kid would be on a boat, getting dropped off at some equatorial island for say - 5 years.....and then we'd talk about coming to my house to spend time (quality or otherwise) with my other kid. </p><p> </p><p>It's like that relative you have in your family - probably your grandmother's sister - that ALWAYS picks up "little" momentos and pockets them, but because she's "OLD/99" everyone just overlooks her little clepto problem - because well she's going to be gone someday and then that little missing thing won't matter. When my son comes? The doors get locked, valuables if any are socked away - and Light Fingers Louis does NOT have free run of the house. He's watched like a hawk. </p><p> </p><p>I'm sorry about the poor non-passing grade. Tell me - were you grading on a Bell curve or just being kind in giving her a D? </p><p> </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/whiteflag.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":whiteflag:" title="whiteflag :whiteflag:" data-shortname=":whiteflag:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/whiteflag.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":whiteflag:" title="whiteflag :whiteflag:" data-shortname=":whiteflag:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/whiteflag.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":whiteflag:" title="whiteflag :whiteflag:" data-shortname=":whiteflag:" /> I don't know if that's a white flag or a sling blade. Some calls it a sling blade I calls it a Kaiser blade. Uh huh. </p><p> </p><p>Hang in there HWGA - </p><p> </p><p>But I really think it's too soon for visits in home with or without revised rules - you've HAD rules - and she once again chose to ignore them. AGAIN.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 171419, member: 4964"] reasonable? yeahhhhhhhh not so much ( like Glen Beck) I think that what she did is equivalent of dog p on the hydrant logic. My Mother years ago (did not like my x but kept mum) sent him 2 things for Christmas at 2 different times in our 13 years of marriage - 1> a lump of coal 2> a ball cap that said if I can't eat it or screw it I pi@@ on it. When you get down to a bare bone minimalist type of thinking? She was right (at least about my x) but it applies to such a broad spectrum of user people. I like Sues idea of the "Situation" for spending that "QUALITY" time with easy child 1. EESH - at my house? nope. At a park, restaurant, movie where you also supervised? Yeah. I get type A people. I worked for one high maintenance man who was A+++++ for years - his family loved me - he went home without stress from ME. I cared not for his moods and told him how life with me as his executive secretary was. I probably am an A- type A. I like what I like how I like it and I'm not a bendy straw. So if what had happened in your home happend in MY home? And I was out of the hospital? YOU CAN BET - if I still had any connections at Sea World, my kid would be on a boat, getting dropped off at some equatorial island for say - 5 years.....and then we'd talk about coming to my house to spend time (quality or otherwise) with my other kid. It's like that relative you have in your family - probably your grandmother's sister - that ALWAYS picks up "little" momentos and pockets them, but because she's "OLD/99" everyone just overlooks her little clepto problem - because well she's going to be gone someday and then that little missing thing won't matter. When my son comes? The doors get locked, valuables if any are socked away - and Light Fingers Louis does NOT have free run of the house. He's watched like a hawk. I'm sorry about the poor non-passing grade. Tell me - were you grading on a Bell curve or just being kind in giving her a D? :whiteflag::whiteflag::whiteflag: I don't know if that's a white flag or a sling blade. Some calls it a sling blade I calls it a Kaiser blade. Uh huh. Hang in there HWGA - But I really think it's too soon for visits in home with or without revised rules - you've HAD rules - and she once again chose to ignore them. AGAIN. [/QUOTE]
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