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difficult child in psyche hospital...finally?!
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<blockquote data-quote="mog" data-source="post: 342461" data-attributes="member: 1803"><p>I know that it is hard for you for difficult child to be gone. I have struggled with this myself - I just got mine back after he went around telling people that he didn't want to live at home so they granted him treatment foster care. Broke my heart that he said that. I was already struggling with things that my step children went around saying to our "friends" in order to gain their trust so they could use them to leave home. They didn't want to follow the house rules so they left. Bio mom a drug addict that is why we had custody. They soon learned that I was right and they were hurt to find out that she really didn't want them around even now. Its still a daily issue. </p><p>Anyway- when difficult child left the first time I was floored. I was so depressed and I cried all the time. MY easy child had a hard time dealing with that. I didn't take any time to try to focus on what I wanted to happen when difficult child came home and it made things hard. You are not the only one counting down the days to not be legally responsible for the stupid irresponsible things that our difficult child's do. I don't know the full story---but don't do like I did. Use this time to recharge yourself and rest your mind and body. Hopefully she will work the system correctly and the two of you will have a different relationship when she comes home and the countdown won't be full of dread but plans for the future.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mog, post: 342461, member: 1803"] I know that it is hard for you for difficult child to be gone. I have struggled with this myself - I just got mine back after he went around telling people that he didn't want to live at home so they granted him treatment foster care. Broke my heart that he said that. I was already struggling with things that my step children went around saying to our "friends" in order to gain their trust so they could use them to leave home. They didn't want to follow the house rules so they left. Bio mom a drug addict that is why we had custody. They soon learned that I was right and they were hurt to find out that she really didn't want them around even now. Its still a daily issue. Anyway- when difficult child left the first time I was floored. I was so depressed and I cried all the time. MY easy child had a hard time dealing with that. I didn't take any time to try to focus on what I wanted to happen when difficult child came home and it made things hard. You are not the only one counting down the days to not be legally responsible for the stupid irresponsible things that our difficult child's do. I don't know the full story---but don't do like I did. Use this time to recharge yourself and rest your mind and body. Hopefully she will work the system correctly and the two of you will have a different relationship when she comes home and the countdown won't be full of dread but plans for the future. [/QUOTE]
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