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<blockquote data-quote="Jody" data-source="post: 368815" data-attributes="member: 8787"><p>It is best not to say anything good, because I jinx it everytime. She called on her lunch talk time. I couldn't stand to even talk to her. She was being manipulative. She was telling me she might get to come home on Friday if she was good for the rest of the week, and that as soon as she got home she was going to relax. Knowing full well that her room is a mess and you cannot walk in it. But she is laying out on the line and telling me what she is going to do once she walks in the house. I said well after you get in and have a little rest it will be time to get going on that room, you have been refusing to work on. Here comes the whine, "won't you even help me on it". Ugh. just started to cringe, same old, tired whining and manipulation. Drives me nuts. I didn't make the mess but of course she wants me to help (do the majority of the cleaning) while she moves as slow as she can and acts like she's not understanding the words, pick up all the papers, get all the plates/dishes/cups out of here and take to the kitchen sink. Ugh, i am so not ready to do this again. It's like vacations, by the time I start to relax and feel like I should on a vacation, it's time to go back. I am starting to feel halfway decent and then she comes right back again and the peace and happiness I have found is gone. I do miss her sometimes, but then I think of something that she says a lot of, and it cures me, instantly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jody, post: 368815, member: 8787"] It is best not to say anything good, because I jinx it everytime. She called on her lunch talk time. I couldn't stand to even talk to her. She was being manipulative. She was telling me she might get to come home on Friday if she was good for the rest of the week, and that as soon as she got home she was going to relax. Knowing full well that her room is a mess and you cannot walk in it. But she is laying out on the line and telling me what she is going to do once she walks in the house. I said well after you get in and have a little rest it will be time to get going on that room, you have been refusing to work on. Here comes the whine, "won't you even help me on it". Ugh. just started to cringe, same old, tired whining and manipulation. Drives me nuts. I didn't make the mess but of course she wants me to help (do the majority of the cleaning) while she moves as slow as she can and acts like she's not understanding the words, pick up all the papers, get all the plates/dishes/cups out of here and take to the kitchen sink. Ugh, i am so not ready to do this again. It's like vacations, by the time I start to relax and feel like I should on a vacation, it's time to go back. I am starting to feel halfway decent and then she comes right back again and the peace and happiness I have found is gone. I do miss her sometimes, but then I think of something that she says a lot of, and it cures me, instantly. [/QUOTE]
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