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<blockquote data-quote="Wiped Out" data-source="post: 182285" data-attributes="member: 1631"><p>Thank you everyone! Your support means more than you know. I know we did the right thing but sometimes it sure is hard and your support really helps. He spirals so fast and his triggers change so we have a hard time knowing when he is escalating at times. Sometimes it's a no brainer and other times it comes out of nowhere. husband and I did talk last night about how disappointment for difficult child is a huge trigger. When he is expecting something to happen (like finding the book) and it doesn't he boils over very quickly and there is little time to descalate.</p><p></p><p>The crisis night went fine. It was the first time with the respite person (different from the guy in July-he can't do it anymore due to a problem with one of his kids and I'm glad because for some reason the guy rubbed me the wrong way). difficult child even wants to go back but for a fun respite not a crisis one. I was a little surprised when he told me he got his favorite breakfast-eggs and potatoes. I'm hoping he didn't enjoy it too much-Know what I mean?? I don't think he did though because of his comment about wanting to go back for fun respite. He even gave the lady a hug when he left.</p><p></p><p>I'm hoping he has a good day at camp and we have a low key weekend planned so hopefully that goes well too.</p><p></p><p>Ranny-nice to meet you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Wiped Out, post: 182285, member: 1631"] Thank you everyone! Your support means more than you know. I know we did the right thing but sometimes it sure is hard and your support really helps. He spirals so fast and his triggers change so we have a hard time knowing when he is escalating at times. Sometimes it's a no brainer and other times it comes out of nowhere. husband and I did talk last night about how disappointment for difficult child is a huge trigger. When he is expecting something to happen (like finding the book) and it doesn't he boils over very quickly and there is little time to descalate. The crisis night went fine. It was the first time with the respite person (different from the guy in July-he can't do it anymore due to a problem with one of his kids and I'm glad because for some reason the guy rubbed me the wrong way). difficult child even wants to go back but for a fun respite not a crisis one. I was a little surprised when he told me he got his favorite breakfast-eggs and potatoes. I'm hoping he didn't enjoy it too much-Know what I mean?? I don't think he did though because of his comment about wanting to go back for fun respite. He even gave the lady a hug when he left. I'm hoping he has a good day at camp and we have a low key weekend planned so hopefully that goes well too. Ranny-nice to meet you! [/QUOTE]
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