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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 322594" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sharon, this sounds like he really does not have a good grasp of things. Pushing you down the stairs sounds like it is a reasonable course of action to get what he wants, in his mind anyway.</p><p></p><p>This is a big red warning flag that the situation is ramping up to where he really hurts you. It won't be thought out as in "I am going to kill her. She won't let me and I am so mad and I want to do it so bad that I will kill her. THEN she will let me go."</p><p></p><p>That sounds like the thinking he is starting to have. Just today he TOLD you to go, so if you stay and get hurt then it is YOUR fault.</p><p></p><p>I heard quite a few people in Wiz psychiatric hospital say things like that. NOT in therapy, or while eavesdropping. Just things the kids would say to me or with me in the room.</p><p></p><p>You and husband should probably start hunting for an outpatient placement very soon. I am so sorry. I know it hurts. But until his thinking can be changed, or he matures out of it, he is getting to be much too big to safely be alone with you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 322594, member: 1233"] Sharon, this sounds like he really does not have a good grasp of things. Pushing you down the stairs sounds like it is a reasonable course of action to get what he wants, in his mind anyway. This is a big red warning flag that the situation is ramping up to where he really hurts you. It won't be thought out as in "I am going to kill her. She won't let me and I am so mad and I want to do it so bad that I will kill her. THEN she will let me go." That sounds like the thinking he is starting to have. Just today he TOLD you to go, so if you stay and get hurt then it is YOUR fault. I heard quite a few people in Wiz psychiatric hospital say things like that. NOT in therapy, or while eavesdropping. Just things the kids would say to me or with me in the room. You and husband should probably start hunting for an outpatient placement very soon. I am so sorry. I know it hurts. But until his thinking can be changed, or he matures out of it, he is getting to be much too big to safely be alone with you. [/QUOTE]
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