((HUGS)) to you!!
You are doing all you can. How nice of you to suggest the movie and that your husband was able to take him.
I know how hard it is when they ask for help, like moving home. It's hard and easy at the same time to say NO. No matter how detached we become there is still the "mommy" in us that wants to wipe away their tears and make everything ok. I know for me I have to remind myself that I am not responsbile for my son any more.
It's good that he meets with his caseworker each week, there are so many that wouldn't even do that.
I'm wondering how he listens / watches Netflix & Pandora? If it's on a phone or tablet I wonder if there's a calander that you could help program to remind him and help him organize his time.
I hope you had fun shopping with your girlfriend. Sometime a little retail therapy helps.
