Wow, you are really stuck since he has so many mental health problems. I always have so much sympathy for mom's whose child has mental illness vs personality disorder because like diabetes it must be managed. You do say he also has a personality disorder - borderline perhaps? This one usually goes along with all the anxiety issues. Here's hoping for the best for you! I agree, do more of the fun things for yourself.
No, you should not do this. First once he is out of the house and in a program - it becomes his social workers job to get him the services he needs. Once you take him back in there will be no reason for social services to help him with anything. Also your job, whatever it is, probably gives you a reprieve from the ongoing drama caused by this difficult child.
